there was a period of my life when i kept saying i wanted depth, but if i’m being honest — and when has honesty ever been subtle — what i really wanted was to feel something immediately.
This topic really matters a lot to me. I cherish genuine friendships with kind, nonjudgmental people who are there for me through thick and thin, not just during good times.
Thank you for this post and topic. It was beautiful to read that you favour depth over the often superficial, fast, "if it doesn't benefit me, I'm out", romantic and platonic relationships that have become the norm. Slow and steady has always been preferable, even if it appears boring to others.
My friend gifted me the phrase “lean into it” — depth invites us to lean in to the intimacy we are building with another soul. We cannot force it or resist it, simply lean into it and keep showing up. Love this piece. Thank you.
Cibelle, this is so gorgeous. the theme of depth feels so resonant right now. your words reflect the nuance of desires so beautifully. thank you for sharing, I really loved every second of reading this. sending love
This topic really matters a lot to me. I cherish genuine friendships with kind, nonjudgmental people who are there for me through thick and thin, not just during good times.
"Depth isn't something you trip over. It's something you stay for"
I like this... We like spontaneity but depth goes beyond that. The answer lies in continuity even on days when it feels uninteresting.
Thank you for this post and topic. It was beautiful to read that you favour depth over the often superficial, fast, "if it doesn't benefit me, I'm out", romantic and platonic relationships that have become the norm. Slow and steady has always been preferable, even if it appears boring to others.
My friend gifted me the phrase “lean into it” — depth invites us to lean in to the intimacy we are building with another soul. We cannot force it or resist it, simply lean into it and keep showing up. Love this piece. Thank you.
Interesting perspective, I had not seen it this way. It makes me value depth a little bit more.
Cibelle, this is so gorgeous. the theme of depth feels so resonant right now. your words reflect the nuance of desires so beautifully. thank you for sharing, I really loved every second of reading this. sending love
Yes. Depth and nothingness. That’s what’s missing. It’s the new adventure on the couch