there was a period of my life when i kept saying i wanted depth, but if i’m being honest — and when has honesty ever been subtle — what i really wanted was to feel something immediately.
This topic really matters a lot to me. I cherish genuine friendships with kind, nonjudgmental people who are there for me through thick and thin, not just during good times.
The relationships that lasted weren’t the rollercoasters - they were the ones where someone kept showing up on ordinary Tuesdays.
We optimise everything now, so staying put when things go quiet feels like missing out. But maybe not everything worth having announces itself.
My friend gifted me the phrase “lean into it” — depth invites us to lean in to the intimacy we are building with another soul. We cannot force it or resist it, simply lean into it and keep showing up. Love this piece. Thank you.
Cibelle, this is so gorgeous. the theme of depth feels so resonant right now. your words reflect the nuance of desires so beautifully. thank you for sharing, I really loved every second of reading this. sending love
This gave me a lot to contemplate. I think depth and spark are almost opposites. The former moves from the outside in, while the latter comes from the inside out.
This topic really matters a lot to me. I cherish genuine friendships with kind, nonjudgmental people who are there for me through thick and thin, not just during good times.
"Depth isn't something you trip over. It's something you stay for"
I like this... We like spontaneity but depth goes beyond that. The answer lies in continuity even on days when it feels uninteresting.
The relationships that lasted weren’t the rollercoasters - they were the ones where someone kept showing up on ordinary Tuesdays.
We optimise everything now, so staying put when things go quiet feels like missing out. But maybe not everything worth having announces itself.
My friend gifted me the phrase “lean into it” — depth invites us to lean in to the intimacy we are building with another soul. We cannot force it or resist it, simply lean into it and keep showing up. Love this piece. Thank you.
Interesting perspective, I had not seen it this way. It makes me value depth a little bit more.
Cibelle, this is so gorgeous. the theme of depth feels so resonant right now. your words reflect the nuance of desires so beautifully. thank you for sharing, I really loved every second of reading this. sending love
Yes. Depth and nothingness. That’s what’s missing. It’s the new adventure on the couch
This gave me a lot to contemplate. I think depth and spark are almost opposites. The former moves from the outside in, while the latter comes from the inside out.